Sometimes THE STORY
YOU’VE BEEN LIVING
ISN’T WRONG.
It’s just incomplete.
The Elephant Parables™
Stories about perspective, identity, meaning, and what becomes possible when we see more of the picture.
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THE ELEPHANT IN THE POOL
Reflection Distorts Reality
We all learn who we are partly by looking at what gets reflected back to us.
Other people’s expectations.
Old experiences.
Roles we’ve played for so long they start to feel permanent.
Stories we inherited before we ever thought to question them.
But a reflection is not the whole picture.
The Elephant in the Pool explores what happens when we begin to notice the beliefs, assumptions, and identities we’ve been living inside—and ask whether they still belong to us.
Through personal stories, humor, reflection, and practical Pool Rules, Julie invites readers to look again at the stories shaping their choices.
Not because everything needs to be changed.
But because some things deserve to be questioned.
What if who you’ve been told you are isn’t the whole of who you are?
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WHY THE ELEPHANT?
The elephant is a reminder that what we see depends partly on where we’re standing.
Sometimes we’re looking at a reflection.
Sometimes we’re holding only one piece.
Sometimes we’re simply too close to see the whole.
The Elephant Parables™ explore those different ways of seeing—and the stories we create from them.
Because a partial view can still feel completely true.
And that’s where things get interesting.
NOT YOUR TYPICAL SELF-HELP BOOK
Readers consistently describe The Elephant in the Pool as warm, conversa
Readers consistently describe The Elephant in the Pool as warm, conversational, relatable, practical, and easy to read.
But “easy to read” doesn’t mean there isn’t much underneath.
One reader called it:
“A quick read that provides a long think.”
Another described it as:
“Deceptively succinct and easy to read… yet with deep and far-ranging possibilities.”
That’s intentional.
The goal isn’t to bury you in theory.
It’s to give you enough space to notice something you might keep thinking about long after you close the book.
tional, relatable, practical, and easy to read.
But “easy to read” doesn’t mean there isn’t much underneath.
One reader called it:
“A quick read that provides a long think.”
Another described it as:
“Deceptively succinct and easy to read… yet with deep and far-ranging possibilities.”
That’s intentional.
The goal isn’t to bury you in theory.
It’s to give you enough space to notice something you might keep thinking about long after you close the book.
WHAT THE BOOK EXPLORES
Identity.
Change.
Self-trust.
Old beliefs.
The expectations we absorb.
The meanings we attach to experience.
The ways we sometimes confuse familiarity with truth.
And the small choices that become possible when we realize:
I don’t have to keep living from the same interpretation.
KEEP COMING BACK TO
We are often seen by other people in fragments.
Strong.
Difficult.
Capable.
Sensitive.
Successful.
Stubborn.
Independent.
The problem begins when somebody else’s fragment becomes our definition.
One Amazon reader described the book as helping her recognize “the quiet tension of being seen, but not fully known.”
That gets very close to the heart of The Elephant in the Pool.
You have always been more than the part someone else could see.
NEXT IN THE SERIES
THE ELEPHANT IN THE PUZZLE
Pieces Create Meaning
What happens when the piece you’re holding is completely real…
and still isn’t enough to understand the whole?
The Elephant in the Puzzle explores the stories we build from partial information.
The conclusions that made perfect sense.
The assumptions we didn’t know were assumptions.
The moments when one more piece changed what everything else meant.
A body.
A relationship.
An expert opinion.
A memory.
An identity.
A version of ourselves we thought we understood.
**Sometimes what we saw wasn’t wrong.
It was simply all we could see at the time.**
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THE ELEPHANT PARABLES™
Three elephants. Three ways of seeing
THE ELEPHANT IN THE POOL
Reflection Distorts Reality
What happens when what we believe about ourselves is shaped by what gets reflected back?
THE ELEPHANT IN THE PUZZLE
Pieces Create Meaning
What happens when we build the whole story from the pieces available to us?
THE ELEPHANT IN THE SKY
Distance Reveals Truth
What becomes visible when we get far enough away to see the larger picture?
Reflection. Pieces. Distance.
Different perspectives.
Same elephant.
The books began with stories.
But underneath the stories, Julie kept finding the same pattern:
Two people can experience the same moment and walk away with completely different meanings.
We notice different things.
Fill in different blanks.
Make different assumptions.
Build different stories.
And then live from those stories as though they were simply reality.
That curiosity eventually grew into the Human Perspective Model™—a framework for recognizing patterns, translating meaning, and opening new possibilities.
If the books make you wonder:
“What do I tend to notice first?”
There’s a place to start.
BOOK CLUBS + CONVERSATION
Some stories get more interesting when someone else reads them differently.
The Elephant Parables™ were written to start conversations about the things we assume, the meanings we make, the moments we misunderstood, and the perspectives we might never have considered on our own.
Julie joins select book clubs, organizations, and communities for conversations that go beyond the page.
Bring your questions.
Bring your stories.
Bring the person who read the exact same book and somehow saw something completely different.
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